Speaking in behalf of those who can't

Silently observing the world, I've come to realize that we can categorize people by their words. One would be those who can't live without expressing their thoughts; two, those who are always cautious of what to tell; and lastly those who has a lot to say but can't. Being in a world where you are always judged by everything, people tend to choose to live in silence than to share and explore the world with their wonderful thoughts.

If only people know how to accept each opinion fairly and wholeheartedly, I guess this world would be more beautiful. I feel hurt for those who can't express themselves because as much as it hurts to be judged for being honest, I know it hurts more to be judged when you didn't even say or did anything. Without even trying, with just being cautious and afraid of making a mistake, you are being scrutinize. We live in a world where we are given the privilege to be who we wanted to be. But due to competitions and emerging trends that forced us to keep up with, we cannot reveal the person we really wanted to be without being rejected by the society. It is the unending battle of having a name in this world, and we are more than that. Because of this social stigma, we are just hurting more people in the process. We eliminate freedom of expression. We kill the person we are deep inside.

Pain is inevitable for everyone, and I am a witness to it. But let me tell you this, it is not bad to stay in the dark. It is a choice to live behind something and pretend you're fine. The thing is you don't get to grasp life entirely with the kind of life you have. Life is not being cautious, but being able to discover things while embracing the dangers to it. I know its hard to feel confident about it, but how can you be so sure when you haven't experience the pain and joy that it brings with it. But don't worry, I wont hold it against you because as cliche as it may seem, we really have different point of views.

WHY DO I NEED TO SAY SORRY FOR BEING THE PERSON I WANT TO BE

We don't need to please other people. We really must not, but we don't practice it nor try to influence others to believe in it. We live in a world where other people is the standard reference. Their comments will interfere and influence our decisions. We're made with free will and had given freedom of speech. But I think people use this violently and irrationally to the point that it puts other people in a prison cell they never wanted to be in.

They get mad when you pretend to be the person you're not, but gets angrier when you try to be the person you really are. I just don't get it? So where do we stand? People set the extremes in our lives. It feels like life has become something to live in betweens. We can't get to choose to try the extremes because it would always seem too much for them. So how do we solve it?

We look at things in a different perspective. I think the best way to cut the roots of all this extreme judgement is by changing our point of views in life. Why can't we just live with a perspective that we created and own? Remove the part where we design our view with the standard, but just how we want it to be. If everyone does this, then there's room for being the person you wanted to be. There would be no judgement or questions on how and why you do things because each would embrace their self uniqueness. You don't follow a standard. neither to they. There is no point in comparing and making judgement, just pure appreciation.

I would like to live in a world where our capacity is not limited because we fear of being compared and judged. A world where our gifts and ideas are embraced. No man would ever criticize nor trash it, just mere acceptance to it. Endless possibilities and creations would be made, problems will be lesser, and life will be easier. Just like art, life must be appreciated no matter how abstract it is or how different it is because art is art, life is life.